So you have met that bottom that just begs to be spanked but alas, your body structure presents a challenge. Or you meet this tiny perfect bottom, but how do you spank without causing some serious damage? Join me as we go over safe and fun ways to still achieve the closeness of OTK spanking, even when it seems difficult. We will go over other positions that can be comfortable for both you and your partner and explore how to find wonderful spots on different shaped bottoms. I will also talk about safety tips for the tops and how to use your whole arm, from shoulder to fingertips to create varied sensations. We will go over different implements as well to interchange with OTK and ways to use them and still achieve the intimacy and closeness of OTK spanking. We will also talk about different negotiating scenarios that are non-Gender specific.